I don't have a problem with people with HIV, not at all but what I do have a problem is when you go out with someone for 3 months, have sex with them for that long and then all of the sudden you get a phone call and they tell you, "Hey and by the way I've been HIV positive for the past 6 years."
That's just not cool at all. Recently I met this really great guy who did the same thing after we have kissed (which I know you can't get HIV from kissing someone) and something told me he had HIV even though his profile online said he was negative. I can always tell when someone has HIV, I can see it in their eyes. I don't know how to explain it I just psychically can tell.
Anyway, had the first guy been honest with me like the second guy was I would probably still be dating him but I don't care how hard it is to tell someone that, it's not cool when you put someone else's life at risk just cause you want to get off or cause you're scared they'll reject you. Don't wear a t-shirt that says "I have HIV" but if you're going to progress to the sexual level in a relationship that's something you should disclose. Don't you think?
One guy said well why should I be the one who asks just cause I have HIV isn't it their responsibility to ask if I have it? Well, why should they ask if you have in your profile that you're negative. That's an outright lie.
Look, I can't imagine the shame and everything else that must go along with having that but it's not right to not be honest with someone.
And shit I still like the second guy who has HIV a lot. I don't care if he has it or not, I still would love to date him and I'd love to fuck that bubble butt ass as well. I swear to God he has THE best ass I've ever seen in my life and I thought I had a great ass.
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